Continuing the series “When God Seems Far Away” - what possible GOOD can come from our desert times, from our stuggles? From those times when God seems so far away? These times of struggle can serve to: 1. Discipline You If you are like me, and like most people, you learn best through your own … Continue reading When God Seems Far Away – Purpose (Part 3)
Month: September 2013
When The Problem Isn’t The Problem
I’m taking a break from the “When God Feels Distant” series today because I feel a pressing need to talk about something else. This week, I found myself feeling very frustrated and inadequate. Also angry, and I rarely feel angry during counseling. The thing that blindsided me – and shouldn’t have – the thing that … Continue reading When The Problem Isn’t The Problem
When God Seems Far Away – Causes (part 2)
In my last post, I shared a bit about what it’s like when God seems far away, and why silence feels so uncomfortable. So let’s keep this topic going and address some of the potential causes for this feeling of distance. 1. Physical and Emotional reasons The first thing you should take a look … Continue reading When God Seems Far Away – Causes (part 2)
When God Seems Far Away (Intro)
Do you ever feel that God is far away? Or maybe you always feel that way. In the last few years, as I’ve been counseling people in distress, one issue that many of them bring up is the fact that they don’t feel close to God. And because they don’t feel God’s presence, they question … Continue reading When God Seems Far Away (Intro)
Pain, Toenails, and Patience
Odd title, right? Let me see if I can tie those 3 things together for you. Some of you may remember me talking about my “bad big toe” before we went on vacation in June and July. The toenail on my right big toe had been a problem for some time – I can’t even … Continue reading Pain, Toenails, and Patience
I Know What You Should Do!!
Why is it that nobody ever listens to the great advice you give them? Let’s suppose you have this friend who is really struggling right now. You can see what they need to do to correct their problem or improve their life SO CLEARLY, but no matter how emphatically you share your input with them, … Continue reading I Know What You Should Do!!
It’s up to You!
So, after reading my last few posts, you should have a good idea of what it’s like to work with me; you’ve seen a little bit about my approach and style. So what about you? What do I require of those who come to see me? 1. First of all, you need to come in because you want … Continue reading It’s up to You!
Where’s the couch??!
There isn't one. My office doesn't have a couch; it has comfy, individual chairs. I'm just not your basic "couch" type of therapist, I guess, although there are times when I'd like to be able to lay down somewhere and close my eyes for a few minutes. The last few posts have been about my view … Continue reading Where’s the couch??!
My Counseling Philosophy
Yesterday I explained why people come to counseling, why they hesitate to seek counseling, and what Christian counseling has to offer. So now, what about ME specifically? What kind of counselor am I, and why should you choose to work with me? I’ll be honest with you – I AM different! Sometimes different is a … Continue reading My Counseling Philosophy
What IS a Christian Counselor anyway?
I’d like to take a few minutes to tell you a little bit about who I am and what I do. I’m a Licensed Pastoral Counselor, which is a fancy name for a “Christian Counselor”. I completed my training and earned my license through the National Christian Counselors Association, and have also earned certifications through … Continue reading What IS a Christian Counselor anyway?
Peripheral Wisdom 